A well groomed man, in a stylish, well-fitting, suit...stylish, classic business shirt, matching tie (Windsor knot), (3 piece suit with a vest is my favourite), business shoes, matching belt, matching socks.....who speaks the relative language correctly and without profanity, and with a charming, kind, caring, manner...can be attractive to women (or men), employers, clients, mostly everyone.
How do I know this?
It worked for me.
Well I didn't have much else going for me ...no degrees to wave around, no fancy car to impress with, no money, no muscles, no height. lol
So I tried "nice".
"Dress/appear like you deserve an upgrade" - life expert.