Bambu, I read a book over 30 years ago that took place in Australia, the name of the book is "The Thorn Birds" and they also made a mini-series of it which is a good mini-series, anyhow, in "The Thorn Birds" there was a lady who was deeply in love with a man, but he became a Catholic Priest and he gave his life to God, so the woman could never have him, he was the love of her life, but he was a Priest and she could never have him.
I had a roommate who was a Franciscan Monk, and he was on a mission to help the homeless, he was my roommate in a homeless shelter, and he said that someone donated a beautiful house in Malibu by where Dick Van Dyke lives to the Franciscan Monks, and that is always an option, I can just give up on finding a woman and I can give up on making money, I can take a vow of poverty and a vow of abstaining from sex, and I can go live with the Monks in Malibu and I can spend my time helping the homeless and worshiping God. I could just worship God, and help the homeless, and not have to worry about anything.
Salute,
Tony V.