As for the .....bar girls...they too know what they're doing.
And so do the men.
I wonder how many times you indulged.
It's none of my business, but the way you put it makes it sound like a guy trying to excuse past actions.
Men going to bars anywhere today are called "predators". Bar girls, girls in bars, are not being held to account.
Indulged? nah..."stranger danger".
Bar girls, girls in bars, girls sitting on my office desk before starting time, all after one thing...not my drop dead gorgeous good looks, or irresistible personality.