Plenty of people get used, abused, bullied and harassed in the workplace.
I hated commuting, and the whole workplace environment.
I liked staying home...washing, ironing, cooking, and cleaning, shopping.
Mrs bambu hated all that.
Mrs bambu, on the other hand, loved working, loved the workplace environment. Loved the 'war'.
As luck would have it, many men my age then, at the beginning of the 90's were made redundant, paid 2 to 1 that they had paid into superannuation account, and waved goodbye.
I then did yard work for widows in the wealthy north shore.
Yes, gentleman bambu the gardener....part time.
Social capitalism is best.