“Don't you think we have a responsibility to be considerate of each other's thoughts and feelings, if we expect others to be considerate of our thoughts, feelings?
Not to go all Miss Manners on you, but it's my contention that your message is clouded or enhanced by the manner in which you deliver it, and that would be indeed be your "problem", it in fact you truly wish to be heard.”
Considerate?
How do you politely utter a primal scream?
A deranged man is burning down the theater. But let's discuss the etiquette of how to quietly fold our popcorn boxes and properly dispose of.
Just so I'm clear. I am only talking about discussion here.
Yes, selective tone policing.
I see you can cut and paste, and post snark, but do you have any original thoughts?
Please add them. Inquiring minds want to know what pearls of pontification they can expect from someone so obviously gifted as yourself!
For somebody asking people to be considerate in their tone, you sure choose funny ways to display the practice yourself!
It doesn't take cut and paste to recognize and comment upon tone policing when it is going on, Uno. It surely doesn't require even much of my obviously prodigious mind!
I didn't say, "You're being a fucking asshole on this topic and you really need to get over yourself!" I used the appropriate term to describe what you were doing.
I don't claim to have never engaged in the practice, myself. It's part of how I recognize it so readily! (It's been pointed out to me once or twice, somewhat pointedly.)
And I am sorry that having it pointed out bothers you so much. I'm pretty familiar with defensiveness, too. (Or as I once said, "But I have a perfect right to be defensive!")