It's possible that if I had married a woman of color, and my relatives had taken up the topic of how dark-skinned our child would be, or how dark-skinned my partner was, I might have considered putting a continent or two between us.
To have some understanding of how Megan and Harry feel, it's a useful exercise to imagine yourself and a spouse on the receiving end of skin tone speculation. They may be royals but they are human beings first. And there is something about the Brit royal family, and the obsession they seem to arouse in people who, say, post a dozen times a day about them, that makes me want to go and relieve myself on the crown jewels.