Kid, I found your non-linked column. It seems to express an extreme caricature of the McCain family. I read this paragraph with some bemusement:
The catty, childish snubbing of the president is unforgivable, not because Donald Trump was snubbed, but because the office of the presidency was snubbed. That office represents We the People, and no matter who occupies that office, be it Barack Obama or Trump, when you shit on the president you shit on the people, and that is just how awful the McCain family is.
- John Nolte, in Breitbart News today
The first sentence is a notably unsupported opinion. I think one could make the argument that, indeed, it was very much Trump himself who was snubbed, and for reasonable cause. You must contend with the reality that the majority of Americans do not feel that Trump represents We the People, or the office of the President, but rather: himself and his rich cronies and network of oligarchs. If the office of President were being generally snubbed, then it's odd that OTHER living Presidents were invited. If Nolte's premise (first sentence) is false, then the rest of the paragraph is invalidated.
Simply sitting in the Oval Office, watching Fox News and firing off venomous attack tweets does not make you a President. And no one should be required to invite to their funeral someone who repeatedly identified themselves as an enemy and repeatedly hurled insults and defamation at them.