Discretion is the better part of valor.
Which is what I keep telling 'part-Aboriginal-race' mrs bambu when she starts getting 'excited' about racism of Black people.
Under my guidance she has learnt to stay calm and measured in her responses...most of the time.
As I said here before, she'd been in NYC '5 minutes' when in a coffee place she expressed her displeasure at a white man in a suit verbally abusing a young Black girl behind the counter. Man telling her she was hopeless, too slow, and 'get me my coffee now' or something.
mrs bambu told him he was rude..."you're a rude man, leave the young girl alone, she's going as fast as she can, it's busy, a lot of people to serve".
"Get out of bed earlier"...or something like that.
"Let it go" I tell her, "this is not the time or place to start WW3".
"We've spent a lot of money making your teeth perfect...we can't afford to have someone knock them down your throat".